questions to ask your wedding photographer

I've been asked a lot of questions over the years, and having been interviewed many times as a prospective photographer, there are things I always make it a point to discuss with potential clients to put their mind at ease. Rather than going through a huge list of specific questions for your photographer, here are my recommended topics for making the best decision for your wedding day.


  • about their experience How many years have they been photographing weddings, and what mix of work do they do in addition to weddings? What do they enjoy most about photographing weddings? This question gives you a sense of what they've seen and bring to the table for your wedding day.
  • to describe their approach Don't ask about their style -- ask about their wedding philosophy, how they like to think through the day with their couples, and how they handle challenges. This will give you a much better sense of what they're aiming to capture in your images.
  • for complete wedding galleries All weddings are completely different, and you'll want to see how the photographer handled the wide variety of possible scenarios--time of day, indoor/outdoor, large and small weddings...
  • to show some finished products It's important to have something to walk away with from your wedding day! Looking at real samples can help you decide what your taste is in heirlooms and if you like the selection the photographer has on offer.
  • for the details of their production timelines Things can get really busy for wedding photographers in the summer and fall months of the year, when the season is at its height. Have them walk you through the process of album design, give you a timeframe for when your images will be ready, and explain how they will be presented to you.
  • about emergencies This is always uncomfortable to talk about, but it must be addressed. Being incapacitated on your wedding day is a photographer's worst nightmare (and probably yours too). Talk about what the process is for the teeny tiny chance that it may happen. And be sure to ask about backup equipment in case something breaks.
  • for their contract terms & preferred methods of payment A sample contract is always an easy ask, and lets you see all the policies that might affect you. Having those set up in a clear and easy-to-understand way helps everyone manage expectations and also get things done on time!

Just as important as the questions you ask the photographer are the questions you need to ask yourself after the interview.

ask yourself

  • Do you feel a connection to their work and personality? You're going to be with them all day. They're going to be involved in your planning. They're going to talk to your family members. Know your comfort level!
  • Are you comfortable with their professionalism and communication style? If they've communicated everything succinctly and in a way that respects the weight of the job, then those are good signs!
  • Have all your concerns been addressed to your satisfaction? When they answer your tough questions and probing with confidence and honesty, it can breed the trust that leads to a smooth partnership and great images.

May your wedding day be full of awesome no matter what you choose!

Find out more about how I shoot weddings,
learn what you need to know about image rights,
and how to plan for fabulous family portraits on your wedding day!


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wedding photographer frequently asked questions

Being a wedding photographer at a cocktail party can be pretty fun, because you get asked such interesting questions. Here are some of the more useful ones I've been asked.

What's the worst thing that's happened to you on a wedding day?

I've had equipment fall in the ocean. I've fallen flat on my rear in the middle of the portraits, while pregnant. I've watched one of my lights fall crashing twelve feet into a stone floor because someone fell backwards into it (thankfully, no one was hurt, and the lights kept working!).

But you know what, in all honesty my photography life is pretty boring, even though I always have an emergency backup plan in place (which is one of the questions you should ask your wedding photographer). Wedding day horror stories are fun to tell, but most of the time nothing's caught fire, and nobody's been seriously injured. I'm thankful, saying my prayers, and knocking on wood for the future!


Why is wedding photography so expensive?

This is not another sob story justifying my work as an artist and how I should get paid for my time and expertise.

Instead, I'll shake things up and tell you that when I started out, I was the $500 Craigslist wedding photographer with my brand new digital SLR that all the pro photographers loved to hate. I was a fine art student fresh out of college--inexperienced (and I knew it), so I charged accordingly.

I can tell you for certain that I'm a different photographer now than I was starting out. I have way more experience under my belt, more professional equipment, pay my sales tax and have a business license, along with tons of other things that make me way more legit than I used to be.

So the secret is that most photographers charge according to their costs and experience. I've been on both sides of the spectrum, and regardless of where a photographer falls on the range of pricing, there's usually a boring spreadsheet involved.


Why does photographer X charge more for the same package as photographer Y?

Package contents may look the same on the outside, but be wildly different on the inside. And every photographer's hourly rate is (ideally) calculated based on their level of experience, what they need to cover their business expenses, upkeep of their equipment, and more. Those numbers are very different if you have a studio full of associates versus a lone shooter.

Example: Photographer A charges $1250 for a 12x12 album, and Photographer B charges $725 for a 12x12 album. There could be many reasons for this, such as

  • the albums are two different levels of quality
  • one album may have a larger maximum page count than the other
  • Photographer A creates a custom design, and Photographer B uses a simple template

The key here is to dig deeper so you have a clear picture of what you're getting in your package. Knowing the details of what you're being offered will help you make a fair, informed comparison between photographers. (Here's a list of topics to talk about with your prospective wedding photographer.)


Why can't I have the rights to the images?

Without the rights to their images, a photographer can't show their past work and gain new clients by proving their skills. In order to use your digital negatives, you don't need the rights to the images, you need a simple personal license. You can find the detailed explanation of how image rights apply to your wedding day here.


Why do I have to pay in advance?

The  legal answer is that putting down a deposit gives  your contract "teeth," if you will, and keeps things ethical. It clarifies and solidifies what you've agreed upon, establishing trust that yes, the photographer will show up on my wedding day and deliver XYZ after the wedding. It also makes sure that there's an emergency plan in place, because even though it's sad to talk about disaster happening on your big day, it can and does happen.

(This is why I tell the super-tight-budget-couples who are thinking about hiring a friend to make sure they get something in writing to make sure that a friendship doesn't turn sour because of unresolved expectations.)

But aside from that, photographers ask to be paid in advance because they often incur costs before your wedding day even arrives--travel, equipment, meetings, phone calls, coordinating with your other vendors, and ordering supplies, for example.

And many photographers try to paid in full in advance of the wedding day because it makes sense for their workflow and customer service--they can start processing your images and making your album right away. Neither on of you has to wait!

Find out more about how I shoot weddings,
look through an example wedding timeline,
and how to plan for fabulous family portraits on your wedding day!

Or if you like what you're hearing, work with me